Lippie 'n Dessert

The question here isn't really if it's important in general, but whether or not it is important to YOU. Being a "Facebook-Official" couple used to be all the rage a few years ago, but has this trend carried itself forward? Most importantly, do we really need it?


For some couples, putting up an "In A Relationship" status is an exciting step to take in letting everyone know they are committed to each other. This is especially true if the relationship is a long-distance one, where each partner has separate friends and co-workers. The relationship status sets boundaries for those willing to pursue them. Apart from this, it also lets everyone know the couple is committed and not interested in dating anyone else.


For some, though, it is something that easily causes fights. "Why don't you want to make this FB-official? Do you have a crush on someone in your account? Do you have a secret girlfriend? Are you two-timing me?" are questions often asked by such partners. The answers to such questions is usually a reason such as "Because it'll cause family problems.". Reasonable as it may be, the other partner usually gets spiteful and does something drastic, or forces the change upon their partner. (I know it sounds ridiculous when put this way, but this is the crime most of us are guilty of).


But does it really matter what your Facebook relationship status is set to? A person who wants to cheat on you will do so no matter what, so why assume setting up your relationship status together will prevent anything?


Personally, I believe being "Facebook-Official" is important only if you're engaged, married, or live far away from each other. Otherwise, if you see each other often and have the same friends, how does a piece of information on your social networking site profile matter?


What are your thoughts? Do you think being an official couple on Facebook defines your relationship? Does it matter to you simply because it is trendy? Or do you consider it an expression of your love? Please share in the comments!